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RESCUED DOG AFRAID OF MANY
THINGS
Question: I rescued a
sweet, lovable, mixed, small breed dog when it was about 5
months old. She is a year and a half old now. She always
has been terrified of some people, mostly men. Especially
men with deep voices. Even men with beards. And bicycles
too. My husband and I take her many places so she can meet
many types of people in hopes this will help. Why is she
like this? Do you think she was abused?
Answer: Thank you for
having such a wonderful, kind heart and giving her a home.
You are doing everything right with taking her places and
introducing her to new people. We now know it is NOT often
that a dog was beaten or abused and developed this fear or
dislike of certain people. Instead it is the people
themselves. Many are men (some women fit this category) that
walk heavily on the floor or ground. Dogs feel this
vibration through the pads of their feet. It singles to
them that (regardless of the persons actual size) that this
person is a large menace. Many men also move in a very
masculine way, long, firm strides, shoulders back, strength
in their whole carriage. Normal for men in our society.
This again is a threat to some dogs. They see and sense the
Dominance and react with fear or sometimes fury. Again, men
with naturally deep voices or loud voices signals that they
are a potential threat. Beards are a simple one too. A cat
or dog (in fact many animals) fluff their fur up to increase
their appearance of Size when ready for attack or showing
aggression. Some dogs seem to regard a beard as a show of
aggression or willingness to fight because the human has
fluffed up his fur. So they react with fear or in some
cases, aggression of their own. I have seen normally cuddly
little dogs do it with women who have a hairdo that is
really fluffy and or gathered in a ball at the nape of their
necks too.
Because she is afraid of these
things, do always watch that she does not bite out of fear.
Fear Biting is a common occurrence, so have the people speak
gently to her but do not let them stick their hand out to
her UNTIL she has regained control of her emotions. Keep
doing what your doing. Most dogs will get more trusting of
these people they perceive as a threat after meeting enough
of them.
When she is barking and acting
fearful, do not make it worse with an increase of emotion in
your own voice or posture. Instead continue on as if
nothing is really out of the ordinary. This way, it will
soon sink in that, "Hey, this person is not bothering my
master at all, maybe I shouldn't let it bother me either".
Gently correct the barking with a firm No, Stop It or Quit
Now, whatever command works best for you. Do so without
making a fuss over her, which just reinforces in her mind
that she needs to be afraid and bark.
Many dogs are either afraid of
bicycles or hate them and want to attack. I think it is the
pumping action of the riders legs setting them off. But it
is only a theory of mine, not yet backed up by
research. When a bike rider is coming towards a dog, the
pumping action of the riders legs makes it appear that the
person is advancing aggressively. Going away, is when most
dogs want to take a chunk out of the bike or it's rider.
Going away, it looks like the rider is running wildly in the
opposite direction. Dogs love to give chase to someone or
something fleeing from them.
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